If you’ve seen the video of Whitney Mongiat getting upset with her husband, Jim, because he wouldn’t take her to the lake, then it’s only fair you get Whitney’s side of the story. The 30-year-old nurse says her husband had promised to take her to the lake to meet with friends but then capriciously changed his mind. She says her behavior was the result of him bullying and goading her on after reneging.

Whitney says she plans to file for divorce to end their 15-month old marriage. Jim says he has no regrets about posting the secretly filmed video and that his friends have been supportive of his decision.